Do You Want A Relationship To Lead To Marriage? Then You See This

Every time we feel an overwhelming surge of affection for our lovers, we want to do something special for them, just to let them know how much they mean to us and how much we care about them.

And as the months and years pass by in the relationship, you may start to take each other for granted, or start to believe that excessive shows of affection in love is just corny.

But you need to change this now. Just because you’ve been in love for several years doesn’t mean you have to stop expressing your love through romantic gestures.

Remember, the more often you try to please your lover or show them just how much you care through your gestures, the happier you’ll feel. And the love for each other too, will bloom into a perfect romance that will fill both your lives with happiness and meaning.

Why do we need more romance in our lives?

The ones who don’t experience true love are almost always the ones who always put their own needs before the needs of their lover. The more selfish you are, and the more you ask what you can get in return for your effort before you do something for your lover, the smaller the odds of finding true blissful love.

Open your heart, and indulge in sweet romantic moments every now and then. Use these romantic ideas and awe your lover. And just when their lips spread into a happy smile as they look into your eyes, you’d realize your effort was all so worth it!

The next time you feel an overwhelming rush of happy love and just want to express all of that to your lover, use these romantic ideas.

These romantic tips will surely help both of you feel more connected and it’ll help improve communication and bring both of you a lot closer too!

#1 Romantic vacations. Nothing beats a good romantic or exciting vacation to bring the rush of romance back into our lives. If you can afford it, make time to plan at least one vacation with each other every year. It’ll create new memories and make your lives more exciting too.

#2 Candlelight dinner. You can plan a candlelight dinner at home, or spend an evening at a cozy restaurant. After all, candlelight dinners are one of the most romantic ideas to express your love to the special someone in your life. The warm glow of candles make everything seem so mellow and hazy, and the soft lights will only make both of you look sexier and feel more in love!

#3 Little gifts. Give your boyfriend or girlfriend a special gift every now and then. It doesn’t have to be expensive, nor does it have to hold a lot of personal meaning to it. Every little gift you give, be it a bar of chocolate, flowers or even a toy or a game will show your partner that they’re on your mind all the time.

#4 Massages. A foot massage or a backrub after a long day at work can go a long way in showing your appreciation for your lover. And if you have some time on your hands over a weekend, spare a few hours, run your hands all over them and give them a romantic, sensual massage.

#5 Love letters. Love letters are the kind of romantic ideas that can last a lifetime because they’re so special and meaningful. It doesn’t matter if you have no clue about how to write one. All you need to do is put pen on paper and just let your words flow. Before you know it, you would have expressed just how you feel about your partner and how happy you are to have them in your life.

#6 Surprises. Plan a surprise every now and then. You can go all out and plan a surprise birthday or an anniversary celebration. Or you can surprise your partner out of the blue by doing something for them, be it a chore or breakfast in bed one weekend morning.

#7 Text messages. Do you ever text your lover to say something nice? Texts may be a good way to stay connected, but you could also use it to express just how you feel. You can send a line about how eager you are to meet them in the evening, or you can even use it to say something naughty to make your sweetheart blush and go pink!

#8 Create memories. Our lives are nothing but a collection of memories. So go on out there and create a lot more of them with your lover every now and then. Participate in an activity that both of you haven’t done yet, visit a place both of you have never been to, or even experiment with a new cuisine that you can’t imagine trying! Every new memory you create together will be another exciting leaf to add into your book of romance.

#9 Photobooks. If everything wonderful in your life is nothing but a collection of memories, what better way to keep the memories close to your heart than by gifting the special person in your life with a collection of photos of both of you together? Every time your sweetheart sees the book, they’d remember your sweet gesture and the effort you put into creating a collection of happy memories.

#10 Cooking together. Cooking may be a chore, but cooking together always seems like a fun thing to do as a couple. Plan an exotic menu together and spend an evening or an afternoon cooking together at a leisurely pace.

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See what happened between me and the babe I was crushing on

So,I have been crushing on this babe for long now and finally I got her mobile number. After the first date, with no delay, I told her my mind during WhatsApp chat. Her replies and mine will make your day, See the chat below and tell me if my last reply was wrong or not!

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Disclaimer: The gist above is not about me but I have to put that way so you will understand the picture well.

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Top Ten Things Ladies Fear Most About Sex

There are certain concerns ladies have when it comes to sex. Sure, All ladies might be different in a lot of other instances, but their sex fears are actually pretty similar.

A survey has revealed the top 10 most common fears women have about sex.
Here are the top ten things Women fear the most when it comes to sex.

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1. Your partner won’t want to wear a condom
2. Your partner has an STI
3. The condom will break/sex will result in unintended pregnancy
4. Your partner will find your naked body unattractive
5. Your partner will not take “no” for an answer
6. Your partner will want to do something
7. An embarrassing bodily function will occur during sex
8. Your partner won’t have an orgasm or be satisfied
9. You won’t have an orgasm or be satisfied
10. You are bad at sex

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Men or women, Who gets hurt more when a relationship ends. Find out!

This piece highlights on the subject of who among a couple in a romantic relationship gets hurt the most when the sizzling affair hits the rocks.

A couple of years back, I had a business lunch with a powerful female executive of a textile firm. We’d never met before but by the first course, I’d learned that she had a young son, that juggling a demanding job and home life was nearly killing her and that the father of her child had just left. Underneath her designer clothes she was a mess. And that’s what we discussed throughout our meal. I listened to her outpouring of pain and made odd remarks – and when we said goodbye,

She said I’d made her feel ‘much better’. Of course I hadn’t, she felt better through talking and feeling someone cared.

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As an agony aunt, both men and women write to me asking for advice about heartache after a relationship ends, and there’s little difference in the way they express their pain. After all, questions like, “will I ever be happy again?” and “Do you think I will ever find a new love?” don’t come with gender labels. I refuse to believe cliches like “all men are unfeeling and women are the more caring sex.” However, it will come as no surprise that many more letters to my column come from women.

You would attribute this to domain. But the number of letters I get from unhappy wives who want to seek couple’s counselling, only to have their husbands flatly refuse, shows men are far less articulate about feelings – and tend to regard talking about them as weakness.

Over the past few months, I’ve had three intense talks with people who I know – unhappy souls whose partners walked out on them after a long marriage. One break-up was five years ago, one 12 months ago, one eight weeks ago. Each was still heartbroken, as well as consumed by moments of bitterness and the terror of a future without companionship. All thought it impossible to ‘get over’ such a shocking life change. Two were women and one a man – but expressed themselves in very similar ways. That was no surprise to me. My years as an advice columnist for this newspaper have taught me that heartache has no gender.

But a new report seems to disagree. Researchers at Binghamton University, New York, and at University College, London, found that when a relationship ends, women suffer more emotional pain than men. They asked 5,705 people in 96 countries to rate the hurt of a break-up on a scale of zero to ten. The average result was 6.84 for women, compared to 6.58 for men – that doesn’t look like a huge-difference, but it is statistically. As well as feeling worse, women suffer more physically; they’re more likely to panic, lose sleep, and put on weight.

The big question here is: How can these ‘experts’ draw sensible conclusion by asking people to rate their pain? “You don’t experience pain – mental or physical – in the same way I do, or my heartbroken friends,” said Clara, a relationship counsellor . “Why should feelings be any different? When my ex-husband ended our 29-year,marriage, friends called me ‘brave’ and ‘dignified’ as I chose not to wail and cut the sleeves off his suits! At the time, I thought reticence necessary for self-protection. But if I’d been asked to rate my feelings on a scale of zero to ten, what would I have put? Would I have rated my emotional agony as lower than that of a male friend I saw last week – still full of anger after a year? Maybe. But my point is that the difference between us is not down to our gender, but our personality type. I move on, convincing myself I must.

“It’s amazing how many couples fail to communicate. Their heart-breaking letters sometimes reveal a lack of the most basic information about each other. Try asking your partner, “what makes you unhappy?” Then the more positive, “What makes you most happy?” The results may surprise – and (with luck) start a valuable conversation. Whatever the surveys say, heartbreak is part of the human condition, and the small rejections we suffer as children are a rehearsal for the jolting shock when a partner announces: “I don’t really love you any more.”

“Pain must be endorsed by walking through the dark valley until you see a glimmer of light. I just don’t believe that in the end, it is gender that makes the difference. Other things – like your ability to talk about it, your support network, if you are lucky enough to meet someone else – will help you through. “I have lost count of the number of items I have held somebody’s hand and assured them that in time, pain does pass. You don’t “get over” it, you absorb it into your being and grow. This is such a hard thing to believe when you are miserable, but in most cases, it is true.”

Get rid of that cheat and meet a better man!

It may be little comfort, but women whose partners cheat on them are likely to be better off in the long run. The largest study of break-ups caused by infidelity found that the lessons learned helped women pick a better partner. The heartbreak of unfaithfulness left them with a ‘higher mating intelligence’ that helped them avoid cheaters.

It seems they become better at spotting clues that suggest their partner may cheat, and are better at sensing when he is going to be ‘poached’ by someone else. But the’ other woman’ gets a partner with a track record of being deceptive. In an anonymous on-line survey of 5,705 adults in 96 countries, reported in the Oxford Handbook of Women and Competition, teams from Binghamton University in the US and University College, London looked at how happy men and women were before, during and after a break-up.

Professor Craig Morris, of Binghamton University in New York, said more women than men claimed to be ‘better off” after they were cheated on. He added: ‘Women report that they are more attuned to cues of infidelity, dishonesty, and other “low mate value” signals following having their mate “poached” by another woman.

“Our thesis is that the woman who “loses” her mate to another woman will go through a period of grief and betrayal, but come out of the experience with higher mating intelligence that allows her to better detect cues in future mates that may indicate low mate value. ‘Hence, in the long term she “wins”. ‘The “other woman”, conversely, is now in a relationship with a partner who has a demonstrated history of deception. Thus, in the long term she “loses”.’

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